“Which mess of mine can you live with, honestly?”
Ask for the real tolerance line, not the polite one.
When to ask · Ask them while doing the dishes together.
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Card 1 of 7“When you point out the small thing, what's the big thing under it?”Card 2 of 7“What do you do for me that I've never noticed?”Card 3 of 7“What quiets your mind when the list won't stop?”Card 4 of 7“How do you want me to hear your advice: as help or as worry?”Card 5 of 7“What standard do you hold yourself to that you'd never hold me to?”Card 7 of 7“What would a perfectly useful day together look like?”