Questions to ask if your partner is a ♋︎ Cancer.

Seven questions for the soft-shelled one. Ask them at home, lights low.

1. “When you go into your shell, what are you hoping I'll do?”Moon-ruled retreat is protection, not rejection. Ask for the map.
2. “What did home feel like growing up, and what should ours feel like?”Cancer carries home as a feeling. Build the new one on purpose.
3. “How do you show worry, and what do you need back when you do?”Cardinal water cares loudly through fussing. Read it as love.
4. “Which memory of us do you keep going back to?”The Moon keeps an archive. Their favorites tell you the recipe.
5. “What makes you feel safe enough to say the unsafe thing?”Cancer opens in safety, not on schedule. Make the room first.
6. “When your mood shifts, do you want company or a little room?”Moods here move like tides. Neither direction is about you.
7. “Who do you take care of that takes care of you back?”Cancer gives by default. Reciprocity is the real question.

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